KISS
Saturday, July 29, 2006
Hay... It's been quite a bustling week... With all the hassles of narrow-minded people buzzing about... A management decision that seems flawed... A case of mere hopelessness... And losing someone close by winning someone closer... I couldn't have asked for a more eventful week...Buti na lang at masaya ang latter part ng linggong ito... Dinner with friends last Thursday and Friday... College friends reunion later... Ok na rin...
Anyway... Medyo preachy nga rin nung mga araw na yun... Kasi naman, kasimple-simpleng bagay, ginagawang complicated... Gaya ng sabi ko sa kanila, when a man finds time to be with you, it only means he wants to be with you... Kaya pwede, wag na mag-assume... Ang tigas naman kasi ng mukha ng iba, sila na nga ang nag-assume, sila pa ang galit sa huli pag nasupalpal sila... Puteks... Wag niyong gawing komplikado... Gusto lang kayo makasama, wag na kayong tumalon sa idea na gusto kayo... Pwede?
Pambihira naman kasi, lagi na lang ibabato na misleading... Wag ganun... Simple lang naman ang lahat eh... Kapag naglalaan ng oras at panahon para makita kayo o makausap, ibig lang sabihin na gusto kayong makita o makausap... Wag nang bolahin ang sarili na gusto kayo... Hirap nyan...
Yan ay aking punto de bista lamang... Other guys might agree... Others might refute (makurot lang sa tagiliran ng kanilang girlfriend, tiklop na agad) it... Pero the truth of the matter is, yun yung basic idea... Pag gumagawa ng paraan para makasama ka, yun ay dahil gusto kang makasama... Ngayon, kung gusto ka, o hindi, eh ibang usapan na yan... Keep It Sensibly Simple...
KISS... Masaya yan... Kasi the less you make things complicated, the more you can savor the moment... Imagine having to toy with the thought na "Is this guy hitting on me?" or "Ano ba talagang gusto nito mangyari sa'min?" each and every time you go out with the guy... Sheesh... I agree that girls mature faster/earlier than boys... But heck, I didn't know they'd stop maturing at a certain point... (Ok, now I see a lot of brows raised up high...)
Well, this theory might not actually govern the other side of the fence... I have no way of confirming that when a girl finds time to see a guy, it only means she wants to see him... I really don't know... But one thing's for sure... Guys should KISS... Take things at face value... Don't complicate things by busying yourselves thinking if she likes you or whathaveyou... Savor the moment and let her see you... Things will fall into their place eventually... Show them that you've matured well enough to play their game...
So paano, KISS lang nang KISS... Basta ako... Masaya since I adopted the mindset... Sabi nga ni Timon at Pumbaa, it's a worry-free philosophy...
